Thanks so much, James! You got from it exactly what I was trying to convey. I was really trying to get the alignment of the arms to flow properly.
When you get to be my age you’ll realize (if you haven’t already) that it’s ALWAYS the woman taking the man by the hand and leading the way.
Oh, and just kidding about the hammer and chisel thing. It was done in three different pieces of 3D software, and PS CS3.