ReplicA -
A preset is what will get rid of the seams. Presets are a collection of settings. Once you have the settings for Max 8 you will not have to alter them again. Just select them as a preset.
Let me put your mind somewhat at ease. I doubt there is anything wrong with your UVs or your model. What you are seeing I have seen several times while establishing the correct settings. It is par for the course. What you are seeing is the result of the normal map not being generated with the correct settings for Max 8, nothing more, I promise! 
ZMapper is really a very powerful solution because you can save these settings as presets and share them with other people. Once you establish what Max 8 requires then you do not have to deal with the settings again.
This is really one of the most powerful aspects in a production setting. I have been to several game studios and tangent space normal maps are very confusing for people who have to deal with them and make them on a daily basis. We are at the edge of a frontier here (to steal a little something from Michael Isner.
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I have known artists to spend more time on their normal maps then on their sculpt! The goal of ZMappers configurations is to remove that. Deal with the sculpt, select your settings, generate normal map, go home to mansion on hill and take ferrarri out for evening drive. 
That said, I understand the confusion. I have had the expert pass settings explained to me by guys who looked very serious and very smart (read: hadn’t shaved in a few days, distracted look in their eyes and hair that looks like part of their cerebellum escaped through pores in their head and was twisting its way to freedom) and I am still at a loss. It was like being in Charley Brown and hearing an adult talking. 
That said I was the one to establish the Headus settings through a disciplined 4 hour testing of various settings. If I can do it then I am convinced that anyone can! 
So, until Rodney King’s words ring true and we all CAN get along then onward you Pixol angles! Lets see some configuration settings! 
Cheers,
Ryan