Painting turned out to be the easy part, at least for me. I think photos are not the way to go. They always look like photos stretched on skin unless you spent quite some time making them just so, and it takes a long time to find the right photos. Also, if you make something TOO realistic, it looks wrong when there is any small flaw.
The book by scott spencer was great, and helped a lot here, though reading other general art stuff helped, too. Basically you paint in layers, first the cool tones, then the yellows, then the reds on top. Then you go along and make surface detail marks in bright white, speckling basically. Then you adjust the tone and you are done. Areas with bones close to skin are yellowish, like forehead. Fleshy parts like cheeks and ears are warm/red, recessed or less bloody areas are bluer. Zbrush is an awesome painter, IMO, but you have to figure out how to make the brushes do what you want, mostly probably with blob and spray settings.