I totally feel where you are coming from and that is why i had to correct it,
being black from NY, around my white friends I crack black jokes all the time,
cause i know they want to do it… but they dont do it cause they think I met get offended so at the end of the day everybody laughs…
and it know it sounds cliche, but its really dark as in darkness, i was in a very dark period of my life when i made the art persona of The Dark Devinci, but everybody liked it… so i kept it… it is ironic that i am dark skinned though… point for you…